Welcome to the group. What kind of surgery did you have? You have found a great group of supportive, caring, & nonjudgmental people here. If you browse thru the archives, you will find tons of helpful hints & advice. It's made a big difference for me. Good luck!New here I am about a week and a half post op I live in a tiny town just looking for a support system here kind of since no one near me knows anything about this process or life long change