Just decided I needed to talk to others like me. I am new at this...I had surgery Sept 27 Lap gastric bypass. I ived in Indiana and had wonderful support but I have recently moved to Oregon adn was told I could not join the support group as I didn't have my surgery here. It is all good...I do understand but I am struggling emotionally right now and am angry that I can't just stuff my face to make the pain of starting over go away. So Hi. I already feel better.