I am glad I found this site! I am set to meet my surgeon in mid March. I was wanting the lapband, but the nutritionist is recommending the bypass. I am 5'6 and 210 (was 239) with pre- diabetes, high choloesterol, sleep apnea. I am afraid of loosing too much weight with the bariatric surgery vs. lapband. ( I think I am afraid of being skinny again lol) I had always been active as a kid and into my mid 20's. Was in very good physical shape. Then got married and during pregnancies (2) my wt. got out of control. In the last 10 yrs I put on over 60 lbs (do to sedentary lifestyle) I have live off protein drinks for the last year ( I actually like them) I have been working out with a personal trainer for the last month incorporated spin class, yoga and step into my program as well. Sadly, I am still not loosing wt. Very frustrating for me. Hence, the reason they bariatric team wants me to have the lap band. They feel it will be more beneficial to me vs. the lap band ( Metabolic reason) I want to stay physically active post surgery and I know that will take time. Then again I see and here from people who like their food and struggle with that.