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Chosen Two

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Hello all! Since I'm new here, I thought I would introduce myself and get to know all of the fine folks who hang out here.
Like many people here, I have really struggled with my weight for the majority of my life. As luck would have it, my body is exceptionally efficient; always saving calories for a rainy.... primarily in my thighs and bottom. (If we had lived in an era where famine was a real concern, I would have been winning!) And, even though I joke about it, it made me very self conscious and damaged my self esteem. I was always attempting to lose more weight and when I was younger, would often be able to do so in very unhealthy ways. Even when I did lose weight and was considered thin, it was so difficult to stay there...which meant I never actually got to enjoy any of it.
Fast forward a couple decades, four children, several degrees, and a wonderful husband later....there I was - more secure in my life and more insecure with myself. I was at my highest weight (240 pounds at just a little over 5 feet tall) and miserable. I was beat. I was discouraged and so disappointed with myself. I knew something had to change. So, I started researching and considering (and RE-considering) the options available for me. I decided that bariatric surgery may be something that could help me reclaim myself. It took a good year of reading everything I could get my hands on regarding bariatric surgery before I was ready to move forward and schedule my initial appointment in October 2020. (I didn't even tell my husband about it until I had made my mind up!) I spoke with a surgeon and a nutritionist and they both suggested the gastric sleeve. I was scared but excited and completely unaware there was a six month journey ahead just to get to the surgery!
At first I was a bit disappointed with how many requirements I had to check off just to get a surgery I had waited a whole year to decide upon. But, I actually found the journey to be a very positive experience where I was able to learn about nutrition, work toward solid goals, learn more about what I would be doing, and build my own self-confidence. Before I knew it, my surgery date had been set and it was really going to happen!
From October to May 20th, I had lost 35 pounds. So, the morning of my surgery, I weighed in at 215. My surgery went well and my surgeon also corrected a hiatal hernia to boot! Aside from having to hang out in recovery for six hours until a hospital bed opened up, it was a pretty smooth operation. Plus, I ended up getting one of the biggest and nicest hospital beds on the floor
I was able to be released the following day and return home to my new nurses - my husband and daughters. (They even got me a bell to ring for when I needed something.) I took three full weeks off of work and started back to work with limited hours. I just had my one month follow up appointment today and I am down to 194 pounds!
So, that's my surgery story I'm a nutshell. I look forward to getting to know you all and sharing this new journey with you!
 
Thank you for all of your supportive replies everyone! I really appreciate the warm welcome and encouragement. This is definitely a journey that is much better when I can talk to other people who can relate in a positive way.

In fact, after introducing myself and reading so many posts here, I decided that I was going to really apply myself to doing my best and using this surgery as a tool. I was really inspired by your stories and how dedicated people are to a healthy lifestyle. So, this morning, I got up at 4:50am, grabbed bottle of water, put my shoes on, and used the next half hour to walk a good mile. It really felt great!
Motivation to exercise has been a difficult thing for me in the past - but I refuse to let that be the same moving forward.

So, thank you all for sharing your stories, positivity, and kindness. It really does matter and make a difference
 
Every time I read posts like these, I am so thankful for all of you who are willing to share your journeys, struggles & triumphs included. ChosenTwo you are definitely inspiring others as you continue your posts.

I walked thru Sam's Club yesterday buying items to prepare for surgery. After walking up & down almost every aisle & around the store's perimeter, I didn't notice my usual aches & pains afterwards. I've been doing leg lifts sitting in my chair while watching tv, now 100 each session, & evidently it's really helping! Thanks y'all!
 
Every time I read posts like these, I am so thankful for all of you who are willing to share your journeys, struggles & triumphs included. ChosenTwo you are definitely inspiring others as you continue your posts.

I walked thru Sam's Club yesterday buying items to prepare for surgery. After walking up & down almost every aisle & around the store's perimeter, I didn't notice my usual aches & pains afterwards. I've been doing leg lifts sitting in my chair while watching tv, now 100 each session, & evidently it's really helping! Thanks y'all!
That’s really awesome! The little things can really add up fast.
 
Sounds like you are on the right track and doing extremely well. Kudos to you!

Karen, it is awesome that you have taken the initiative to start doing chair leg lifts. It really is amazing how much better pretty much any extra movement makes your body feel. You're getting really close to surgery, aren't you? 2 or 3 weeks, I think? You should be really proud of all the work you've put in preparing.
 
Sounds like you are on the right track and doing extremely well. Kudos to you!

Karen, it is awesome that you have taken the initiative to start doing chair leg lifts. It really is amazing how much better pretty much any extra movement makes your body feel. You're getting really close to surgery, aren't you? 2 or 3 weeks, I think? You should be really proud of all the work you've put in preparing.
Yes my surgery is July 12th. I feel pretty good about the leg work, and I plan to start some upper body/arm work with some 7.5 lb round weights I found. Thanks for your kind words. I am so excited, and feel so lucky to have all the support I'm finding. Getting some ramekins from a friend that had the sleeve a few years ago. Such kindness!
 
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