I dis really well for the three years. I was going to the gym and really losing the weight. I got pregnant twice and now I feel like i’m doomed. I lost my motivation. These babies are stressful. I need help.
I am a single dad with 2 kids at less than a year old I had to care for my son . It was a big change for me I found that when I took some time for myself it helps. For me it was hire a baby sitter at least 1 night a month and go out with my friends. I tried dating once but found out through a baby cam the woman was cruel to my children . So I just started doing things with the kids and grew into it. I found that as the children grew it got easier. I think with time it will for you too. I learned that spending time with the kids helped me understand there needs and that in turn helped the stress. I know your pulling your hair out but know it will get easier. I think we all have felt as you do with our children but by getting closer to them you will enjoy the rewards later but take the night off with your best friend to get the break we all need every now and again.
