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billyboystl

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I am 69 years old and scheduled for bariatric surgery in September or October. I've completed all my pre-op tests except for meeting with a psychologist and a dietician. Until recently I was excited about the surgery but then I started reading some online forums. The post-op horror stories really concerned me. The vomiting, the difficulty with meal prep (I live alone), etc. I was seriously contemplating cancelling my surgery until I had a face-to-face with my surgeon today. I realize there are bad outcomes in any surgery, but they certainly can't be the rule. My surgeon weighed the pros for me, including: no more acid reflux; preventing diabetes and addressing serious acid reflux damage (which I was unaware of) to my esophagus. And, of course, the benefits of losing many unwanted pounds. I'm now more comfortable about going ahead with the surgery. My doctor urged me to contact support groups (like this one) to learn more. If anyone has an opinion, pro or con, I'd love to start a dialogue. Thank you in advance.
 
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Welcome to the group! Not saying there aren't risks with the surgery but sometimes you have to decide if it is worth the risk. Are you at risk doing nothing? Most of us would say yes.

I did have some complications which have been noted here in this group but I fell in a very small percentile that has that happen. I will say that after I recovered from my complications and started to lose weight, felt healthier that I have in decades and regained my mobility, it was the best decision I could make. Did I feel that way the first few weeks following surgery? No. But I did come around, I survived and say it was all worth it.

I wish you all the best in your journey. I think you will like our group. So much great information here and very caring people.
 
Welcome BILL ! I am 69 too I had my surgery a year and a half ago I’m not going to say it was easy but I I’m going to say it was the best thing I’ve ever done because I want to live longer and eat better. Don’t know what else to say but if I can do it yo can too. There are plenty of good stories on this site too .
 
Congratulations on making the journey so far. Getting medical info from your surgical team is your number one responsibility. Having said that, you will have a great source of info, support, and encouragement here.

I had gastric bypass on July 12th. I read everything I could find ahead of time, including reading past posts going back several months to help prepare myself mentally & physically.

I followed and am still following the post-surgery diet exactly and even extended my stage 2 (full liquid) & stage 3 (pureed food) an extra week each to allow my stomach to heal.

I have not had nausea or any vomitting. I stocked my pantry & fridge with protein shakes, broth, sugar free jellow & popsicles, low carb yogurt, cottage cheese & eggs (both allowed on my stage 3 w/o pureeing), a few jars of baby food & no sugar added applesauce. This got me through the 1st month & I didn't have to go grocery shopping for several weeks.

For me, Benefiber & Gatorade Zero every evening, plus prescribed colace twice daily & omeprazole daily, helped take care of constipation. You might wish to discuss this with your nutritionist.

I'm almost 60 yrs old & this was one of the best decisions I've ever made. I felt so prepared going into the surgical process, and life since has been like a dream come true.

Definitely this is not an easy way out, but it is a healthy way to live the rest of your life if you choose to continue your journey. I've lost 31 lbs so far & haven't felt this good in a long time.

Good luck and please don't get discouraged.
 
HI, Bill. I'm glad you talked to your surgeon before deciding to quit. All surgeries come with risks and I'm sure they've laid them out for you. Some people have complications but the majority don't.

People will share the negative before the positive and happily blame anything but themselves for any bad outcomes they have. Vomiting is not usually due to a complication. Usually it's due to eating something that you should not have or eating too much. I would go so far as to say most times, that is the case.

I have no idea how anyone could have a meal prep horror story. It's awesome lol I can imagine trying to make meals willy nilly after surgery being difficult. Which is why you need a plan. I just made my baby cousin, who started puree on Monday, a bunch of grab and go individually packed "meals". She can't eat much and you want to start small anyway. So I packed up 5 individual size (2oz) each of baked ricottas, mashed sweet potatoes (with maple syrup and cinnamon), protein puddings, & spaghetti squash with sauce. That's plenty to get her through the week, since these are the first real food experiments. Check the recipe sites, there are a million ideas out there for you to get the nutrition and meal preop help that you need. You can actually even find 7 day 3 meal 2 snack menu plans already made.

And getting a support group who can advise you or just listen, is really the best thing you can do. We're here. We'll help. You'll be great. Welcome!!
 
Hearing from so many caring people almost brought tears to my eyes. I thank you all SO much. I just want to be healthy again and not worry so much about the maladies of old age. You have all made me feel much better about going ahead with the procedure. Like I said, I've checked everything off my pre-op list except counseling and meeting with a dietician. I hope to do that in the next few weeks. My doctor says it's very possible I'll have my surgery before the end of September or perhaps early October. Thank you all again and I'll keep you up to date!
 
Thank you all. Now, I have another question. As I said, I'm 69 years old and live alone. (My daughter lives nearby and will help but with two little one of her own I don't want to rely on her too much.) One of my biggest concerns right now is what to eat post-surgery. I am far from a whiz in the kitchen. I've existed mostly on frozen dinners and sandwiches (which is part of my problem.) All this talk about shakes and protein and small servings is daunting. Is there any on-line company that provides easy meals for those with a new gastric sleeve? I appreciate it.
 
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