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Struggling

My surgery was 5/20/2020, I started the liquid diet one week before and it only lasted about 2 weeks after surgery. I was dying to have real food. So I started eating food slowly. My weight to date is 214, I know the recommended diet is best and everytime I eat I worry myself about stomach stretching. Has anyone dealt with this? How did you deal with it? Any advice on how to go back on stage 2 diet and to stick with it? Could I have strected my stomach this early on? HELP
 
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I was just saying that I am struggling with only having the limited foods on stage 2. I was missing food so I've eaten some foods that I shouldn't have. My weight at surgery was 240 and I'm now 214, I'm not sure if my weight loss should be more. I just need help with sticking with the stage 2 diet. Sorry about the previous post.
 
26 lbs in 3+ weeks is good! Don't fret about occasional missteps. Focus on the positive things. Stretching your stomach is not possible in just 3 weeks. When I get hungry (not my body needing food, just my mind wanting to eat), I try to go outside and work in the yard or walk around the block. Just getting away from the temptation. If it's real hunger, I can eat when I get back inside.
 
Your Fat Brain, as I call it, is still there, wanting you to overeat. Unfortunately, the surgery doesn't take that away. Try to establish and keep good habits early on. You can do it!

Totally this. The mental battle is very real, and as we all know - losing those fights can lead to losing more of those fights with shocking ease. You gotta struggle to get on top of your urges & cravings; healthy habits are only formed when you repeatedly force yourself to do the healthy thing when your brain is screaming for something else.
 
My insurance company changed their rules for pre op in March, and now the counselors are required to do 6 behavior interventions for surgical approval. I had my first 2 yesterday. The first was talking about the 3 types of hunger: physical, emotional, and sensory. It was really a learning experience for me even though I know about physical and emotional hunger. I hadn’t even considered sensory hunger which is just when you smell something, like fries cooking, see someone eating something on TV, for me it’s ice cream, or hear someone crunching, mmmm chips lol. And it’s all about reacting rationally, I guess is the best word I can find, to those sense. The other was making a goal for myself, which was being more mindful when eating. It’s not that I don’t realize I am eating, but I, personally, need to pay more attention to how I am eating. Smaller bites, chewing better, spending more time on eating. I said I would accomplish this goal by setting a stop watch to see how long it takes me to eat, and I need to buy smaller utensils. A goal that I talked to with counselor about, not part of the insurance requirements, is that even though I love food, I need to focus on flavors. I know I’ll miss textures during the liquid and soft food stages, but they’ll be back, and I have to remember that. Also, your weight loss so far is amazing. You’re pretty awesome.
 
I really needed this support. Thank you all for not judging and just supporting
We're all guilty of judging ourselves! We all have been to the same places and if we judge others here, we're just judging ourselves. We're all trying to break the old habits. One habit for us to give up is judging ourselves and others. Based on the posts I've seen over the last few months, we're making progress.
 
I had to do the pre-op for 3 weeks. My saving grace was that I was able to eat certain raw veggies. I would make a salad at dinner and then drank a protein shake. It really did help a lot and I lost almost 20 pounds before surgery. Maybe you can call your doctor or surgeon to see if this would be something you could do to make it a little easier. Good Luck.
 
I certainly did not have to endure long stretches of liquid diet -- I was only on liquid for 1 week pre-op and 2 weeks post-op -- but I found that I did tire quickly of having only liquids. I found a HIGH protein shake that allowed me to get in all of my protein points so that I could treat myself with sugar-free jello gelatin often throughout the day. I drink Knockout Chocolate Pro Series by Muscle Milk, which has 48 grams of protein in a 17oz carton. 1 1/2 of these each day allows me to enjoy sugar free jello gelatin as a treat for the rest of the day. YAY!!! ;)
 
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