Congrats on your surgery and don't sweat. I was uncomfortable for about 2 weeks. People have different pain tolerance. I also obsessed over what could happen lol.
It will be fine. I did stay in the recliner for about 4 days after coming home but I wanted my bed. I saved pain meds to help me get into bed and find a comfortable position. I found sleeping in my right side holding a pillow worked for me.
What I had trouble with was protein supplements. I hated protein shakes I used to love and I still have some I can't stomach using lol.
Be patient with yourself, rest when you need to. Follow your drs orders. Follow up with your dietician as soon as yiu can for help with food.
I had my bypass on May 23rd, 2022, I am happy with my choice. I am 40lbs down, eating regular food but watching my portions and am thrilled with the clothing size drop. I am now in a size 16 pants, xl - 1x tops after being in size 22-24 pants and 3x snug tops
Good luck and stay in touch!