Hey, Shaunda! Welcome to the group. Everyone is different but for the majority, healing is relatively quick. I was home on day 3 post op, with no pain killers needed. My surgeon likes to keep ppl 4 days, so I was early. My husband was also out by day 3 but needed pain meds and anti nausea pills for about 2 weeks.
I am 3 years out this week. Down about 100lbs and am keeping it off. Hubby is 1 1/2 yrs post op. Down about 120 and still losing, although very slowly now.
We are very active now and feel freaking amazing. We still enjoy food but in smaller amounts.
Don't get scared. This is the best decision you can make for yourself. Remember, its a tool. As long as you use it properly, it works. Good luck!