I am finally going to go see the surgeon next month to see what all I need to get done to get my surgery date.. The thing is my husband is against me getting the surgery... He is so jealous, he is totally against the surgery but I am not going to let that stop me. I am doing this for me and not for him. I keep telling him that intimacy will be better in the end because I will be healthier but he won't listen. He thinks that I am going to get skinny and other men will be hitting on me. I am 50 years old and in my second marriage, I do not want to make that mistake for a 3rd time. I just don't know how to get him on board with me and support me .. Any Ideas would be helpful.
What to do?
- Thread starter TMannon
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javelin363
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My wife and I are in out late 60's. When I told her I was considering bariatric surgery and asked what her opinion was, she was for it because I would live longer to be with her. They do call it morbid obesity for a reason.
Tauheedah S Hasan
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You can choose life by taking care of your health or you can choose to die and when you are gone I assure you someone else will take your place. Don't give up on you!!!