I had my surgery the RnY may 5, 2008 and lost 104 lbs then my sister and brother died within a month of each other november and december of 2008.Then I gained back all but 25 pounds because of grief and taking on responsibility of our handicapped brother. I've only been able to lose 15 or so pounds and emotionally am at a stand still but also I cannot get rid of the gas that comes with the surgery. Can anyone offer advise on this?!! PLEASE!!!! I'm desperate!!!!