I'm here, just feeling quiet and thoughtful. I'm so grateful to have found this site, I'm 3 weeks postop and I have no questions, no concerns, I feel like I know what I'm doing and what to do if something isn't going well. I'm not comparing myself to anyone else, I'm not getting upset when I stay the same weight for a few days or even gain a bit. I was definitely feeling more emotional last week, this week is better, but I'm tired and getting antsy wanting to get back into activities so just trying to be patient. All in all, having done the research beforehand made such a difference. So thank you Diane, for being so generous with your time and effort to help all of us.