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[MamaBearOf4]

Sorry I haven't been on to much here lately. I have been having a hard time. I found my husband started cheating on me the day I had surgery. Then he got stopped and token to jail. He was bonded out but when he went to court immergration picked him up. We fought real bad this past weekend because he thinks me not eating will help me lose weight faster. I feel unloved fat and ugly. On top of everything he talks crap about me not being able to cook and clean. Anyways he was taken into custody and now I have to move with no help and no money. I am really depressed but the problem is that I refuse to eat because I don't know if I will stop myself from eating the wrong things or stop at all. So I guess I will check in later

 

[mmitti]

Are you eating anything? Drinking water? You deserve to treat yourself with compassion, just as you would encourage others to do so. I'm so sorry about your husband.

 

[Bill S.]

Wow you sound like you’re living in a living hell and I don’t know how you can get help . Maybe someone here can give you advice . My advice is to follow your surgeons diet and eat and drink try to get some help from someone.I feel so sorry for you.

 

[MamaBearOf4]

Are you eating anything? Drinking water? You deserve to treat yourself with compassion, just as you would encourage others to do so. I'm so sorry about your husband.

I am eating and getting all my water in. I stick strictly to my diet

 

[MamaBearOf4]

Wow you sound like you’re living in a living hell and I don’t know how you can get help . Maybe someone here can give you advice . My advice is to follow your surgeons diet and eat and drink try to get some help from someone.I feel so sorry for you.

It may seem like hell but right now my husband is my least of my worries because I felt it coming and I told him. But the weekend before he was taking her told me it was good if I stopped eating because I would lose weight faster. That is what upset me the most

 

[Roseanne37]

So sorry for your troubles, Mama BearOf4. Stay Tough--you have done so well, don't let this get you down. I know it isn't easy, but you are showing strength in staying with the diet and drinking your water during this stressful time. Some people don't understand the principles of our weight loss surgery and post diet. Stay strong and good luck to you.

 

[MamaBearOf4]

It may seem like hell but right now my husband is my least of my worries because I felt it coming and I told him. But the weekend before he was taking her told me it was good if I stopped eating because I would lose weight faster. That is what upset me the most

I am staying as strong as possible. I may take time to break down and cry at night but that emotions have to be let out