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Just me

lele

Newbie
Surgery
Gastric_Bypass
Date
Oct 03, 2011
Start Weight
516 lbs
Goal Weight
200 lbs
Currently
230 lbs
Progress
91%
Hi I had my surgery in 2011 the only thing I don’t like is my teeth is jacked up since the surgery and I can’t do nothing about it so it’s like back to being embarrassed to leave the house
 
I'm sorry you're feeling that way. It sounds like you've worked incredibly hard since your surgery, and it must be frustrating to feel like something else is now affecting your confidence.

One thing I've learned is that our minds can be quick to focus on the thing that bothers us most in the moment, even after we've achieved something as life-changing as major weight loss. That doesn't make your feelings any less real, but I hope you don't lose sight of everything you've accomplished since 2011.

A loss of 286 pounds is remarkable, and while your concerns about your teeth are valid, they don't define you or erase all the positive changes you've made. I hope you're able to give yourself some of the same grace and compassion that you would offer someone else in your situation.
 
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