Hi, I'm new here. I am scheduled for the bypass March 27. I've always been the only one in my family that has struggled with my weight, of 9 siblings. I've contemplated this procedure for over 2-3 years now. I thought if I really tried, I could loose some weight, but my weight just keeps going up. My pre-op diet has me so afraid that I won't be able to make and keep up with the lifestyle change because I've been cheating on the 2 week diet. I'm I the only one that has slipped and cheated? The time is getting closer.