SO, For the last 18 or so years I have been living my life for everyone else.... Raising my kids who are now 19 and 21... taking care of my sister's kids.... etc.... I decided now it's time for me!! So after a lot of research and introspection, gastric bypass is in my near future... My date is set for August 20th... One week after my birthday.... I am excited and nervous... I can't wait to start my life over.. and live it for ME!!!!!