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Struggling but I’m new here

Surgery
Gastric_Sleeve
Date
Jan 05, 2026
Start Weight
222 lbs
Currently
147 lbs
I’m struggling with wanting to idle eat, obviously I’m not eating and I know I’m not hungry, so I’m chewing gum but nothing is satisfying that want, but I don’t know what I’m actually looking for by wanting to eat
 
I've come to the realization that I don't get the same satisfaction from eating that I used to. Maybe I was chasing the anticipation of eating more than the food itself. Post surgery, food moved from being a source of entertainment, comfort, or emotional fulfillment to being primarily nourishment.

I expected the weight loss and improved health, but I didn't expect to grieve the loss of food's emotional role in my life. It feels a little disappointing at times, but the tradeoff has been worth the results.
 
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